I like the film "Click", it discusses the topic "live with autopilot but no feeling". Which is more important "business" or "family"? How about "bread" or "love"?
In this film, the hero Michael Newman, was devoted himself to work. Work was more important than everything his life; he wanted to make more money to let him and his family get luxurious lives. So, the only goal of all his life is working hard and making money.
Of course, making money is not easy. Because he just wanted to get the result--finishing the work, promotion and making money, the process apparantly was hard and painful for him.
Therefore, He chose to lived with autopilot and skip all the feelings of every process. He lived a automatically finishing life with autopilot. That is to say, he lived like a robot, lived without real feeling, just let time passed, day after day.
Finally, he got what he wanted, he got a very big international company and made much money, but he was old and sick;and his wife had left him. In the beginning, he skiped all the feeling for the processes, and want to feel the sweet of the end result. Wwhen he got what he wanted, and he had the feeling for his life, did he got what he really wanted? I don't think so. He just felt regret and lonely.
He regretted that he couldn't enjoy the growth of his children, he regretted that he couldn't spend time for conpaning his parents, he regretted that he couldn't share the sweet or bitter of life with his wife. He regretted for ignoring all of his family, even their dog. But, it seemed too late.
When his son wanted to cancel his honey moon trip for dealing with some problems of company. He struggled to tell his son "family is more important" form intensive care unit, he fell down and soon died.
So, When we are in a annoying period in the process, don't just want to run away, when you expearience the bitter, you can know how sweet the plain life. Nothing needs to be regretted when you can enjoy and find joy in everyday plain life, then your life will fill with happiness.
Cherish the most important person(s) besides us and enjoy every flavors in our lives, include the sweet and the bitter.
Finallly, let me bring you back to the film. The director didn't want the film to be a tragedy, he changed the end in the ending--when the hero Michael Newman opened his eyes again, he found he just had dreamed a dream. After then, he decided to put “the family" on the top position in his life, because he knew what was the most important thing in his life.
This is a nice comedy film, if you havn't seen it, when you don't know what to do, you can rent this vidio, I think it will give you a good time.
My dear friend, what do you want to choose in your life? only the result or including the sweet and bitter of the processes?
In this film, the hero Michael Newman, was devoted himself to work. Work was more important than everything his life; he wanted to make more money to let him and his family get luxurious lives. So, the only goal of all his life is working hard and making money.
Of course, making money is not easy. Because he just wanted to get the result--finishing the work, promotion and making money, the process apparantly was hard and painful for him.
Therefore, He chose to lived with autopilot and skip all the feelings of every process. He lived a automatically finishing life with autopilot. That is to say, he lived like a robot, lived without real feeling, just let time passed, day after day.
Finally, he got what he wanted, he got a very big international company and made much money, but he was old and sick;and his wife had left him. In the beginning, he skiped all the feeling for the processes, and want to feel the sweet of the end result. Wwhen he got what he wanted, and he had the feeling for his life, did he got what he really wanted? I don't think so. He just felt regret and lonely.
He regretted that he couldn't enjoy the growth of his children, he regretted that he couldn't spend time for conpaning his parents, he regretted that he couldn't share the sweet or bitter of life with his wife. He regretted for ignoring all of his family, even their dog. But, it seemed too late.
When his son wanted to cancel his honey moon trip for dealing with some problems of company. He struggled to tell his son "family is more important" form intensive care unit, he fell down and soon died.
So, When we are in a annoying period in the process, don't just want to run away, when you expearience the bitter, you can know how sweet the plain life. Nothing needs to be regretted when you can enjoy and find joy in everyday plain life, then your life will fill with happiness.
Cherish the most important person(s) besides us and enjoy every flavors in our lives, include the sweet and the bitter.
Finallly, let me bring you back to the film. The director didn't want the film to be a tragedy, he changed the end in the ending--when the hero Michael Newman opened his eyes again, he found he just had dreamed a dream. After then, he decided to put “the family" on the top position in his life, because he knew what was the most important thing in his life.
This is a nice comedy film, if you havn't seen it, when you don't know what to do, you can rent this vidio, I think it will give you a good time.
My dear friend, what do you want to choose in your life? only the result or including the sweet and bitter of the processes?
